I don't think I'm very wise
xixi says:
u r wise,arent u
persona non grata says:
Um, some think so. What of it?
xixi says:
what wud be a good reason to break up with someone?
or do u need a reason to take such action at all?
say waht u think ,cong
persona non grata says:
The present relationship's setup is no longer representative of reality, or it is unsuitable, or it is inadequate. (I use reset-based relationship models.)
xixi says:
:P very helpfully(highly ironically just in case you didn't notice
I'd like to be in the world which you live in for sometime
just to see what it is like
persona non grata says:
I'm a Pure Mathematician, a Logician, and a Romantic Idealist.

How is that unhelpful, then?
I don't like hot-modify relationship models, but I suppose they can be wrapped for consistency.
xixi says:
too abstract to apply to the real situition
you are cute
persona non grata says:
Basically, if the relationship's understandings and assumptions no longer hold, it no longer exists, so the people involved are broken up. More specific?
xixi says:
specify understandings and assumptions
you mean mutual agreements between two ppl involved?
persona non grata says:
They should be specified and mutually understood at the initial formal recognition of such a relationship. I mean those and others.
xixi says:
under what conditions wud it be reasonable for one of the two individuals to initiate a break-up?
time for bed
persona non grata says:
One of them feels like it - relationships are founded on mutual agreement, and evaporate if that is lacking.
Okay. Night!